Are you late for work? – Decor8

Yes I’m talking about Business codes-When you start measuring your self-esteem how much you like or how much comments come in when you set up on the Insta. When your day was destroyed with a subscription of engagement or negative comment. When you start thinking, “If my job is not successful and then I don’t.”

I was there. When I first started blogging and use socially regularly back 2006. years, my mood was a rollercoaster tied to blog stats and how much he loves and comments I had.

A good number? I felt unstoppable.

Chicklines? I would spiral in confidence. It was exhausting and honest, pretty unhealthy.

So what is the correct business codes?

• When you rely on your business for emotional confirmation.

• It’s when success feels like love and failure feels like a refusal.

• It’s when you put impossible expectations on yourself, then beat yourself when you don’t meet them.

Sounds familiar?

Here are a few characters that you could do it:

• You feel guilty of rest time Because if you don’t work, you’re not worth it.

• Looking for a constant confirmation from sales, likes or customer feedback.

• You avoid risks Because you are terrified because of failure or judgment.

• You say “yes” to everything Because you’re afraid to let people go.

• You feel lost when things are slowAs your value is related to the success of your job.

It is true that business codes are drained. It is shown as perfectionism, disposal and comfortable. This is why you feel crashing to a negative comment or completely defeated by a bad week. This is why you are afraid to start something new or why you disappear after you do, you flooded with pressure.

And here he is Kicker: You are not alone. I was there, and sometimes I’m still there. But I learned a few tricks in the way they helped me break free. I share it because I wish someone shared them before. These are not magical repairs, but powerful shifts from thinking that can help you release receiving business codes.

Tip 1: Stop expecting your business to prove your worth

Your value is not tied to your numbers. Sales, Likes and followers do not determine your value. Do you feel crushed when engaged or exit when pointed? If this is the case, it is time to redefine success according to purpose and influence, not metrics.

Tip 2: Show the imperfect (because it doesn’t exist perfectly)

I know how hard this is to trust me. I’ve been writing a blog posts ten times before he hit “publication” because I was scared of what people would think. But it appears smoothly is better than not appearing at all. Give yourself permission to be unregulated, vulnerable and real. People do not connect with perfection – they connect with authentication.

Tip 3: Stop giving your power

This is a lot: speaking “yes” at each client request, bending above backwards, then feel indignant or burnt. Was there. Start asking borders And remember that it was sentenced “not” what you distract you to say “yes” to your well-being and creativity.

Tip 4: Start, learn and let

Ever run something and immediately want to hide below the rock? Or worse, it will not be launched at all because it is “not ready”? It’s a way of business code to keep you. See each start as an experiment, Not a test of your value. It’s almost better than perfect.

Remember this: You are enough. And that’s your job.

Love,

Holly